And is now the time to speak about gender? Who would dare? I am only a man when you treat me like a man. I am astonished by the difference between us because it is impossible to locate – it is a complete difference which seems predicated merely upon desire and the parallel movement of our bodies. I want you and yet you always happen to be in the place where I am not, even though I was there just a moment before you or arrive the moment you leave. And if we were ever at the same spot –-is there anything I could desire more? – the difference would be erased and there would be nothing to say, nothing to do. We would be divine.